The Power of Words

I participated in a Law of Attraction class today that focused on the power of words.  I was asked to speak on how words affect parenting.  Our choice of words is profound when it comes to how children see themselves.  It’s a huge topic but I chose to zero in on two words that enhance all our relationships.  We don’t use these words often enough.  We demand them of our children but I don’t think we role model the use of them as often as we could.  The two words I’m referring to are “THANK YOU.” 

Do your kids hear you say “thank-you” to your partner for simple things? Do you say “thank-you” to your kids for remembering to do something or for simply making you laugh or smile? Do you say “thank-you” to your friends for their support or their friendship? Do you ever make a special phone call to someone just to say “thank-you”? These two simple words can make someone’s day. 

I remember once going out for dinner with a couple of friends and our server was excellent.  She was attentive and friendly but didn’t go over board.  She was just right.  We decided to acknowledge her and say thank you for the great service.  We elaborated on how impressed we all were. She was touched.  We could see it in her face.  It was so simple.