30 Jul
2008

Do you laugh with your kids?  This morning I was in a brief meeting with Rebecca Hanson from the Law of Attraction Training Center to discuss our teleclass tomorrow on parenting teens.  We talked about how important humor is in parenting.  This of course applies to all ages.  When we can laugh about something, it puts everything into perspective.  It also puts everyone in a good place, emotionally.

With respect to parenting teens, Rebecca and I were talking about watching funny movies with them.  My kids introduced me to Steve Carell, Sasha Baron Cohen and many others.  We’ve watched movies together and laughed until our sides hurt. Rebecca referred to Jim Carey and all the crazy movies he’s made.  Kids love it when they can share humor with us. 

With younger children, be silly with them and laugh at yourself.  My kids will never forget the time I opened the mustard jar and the jar fell on the floor.  Mustard went flying all over the kitchen.  It was a mess!  We were all doubled over with laughter.  Sometimes we take ourselves far too seriously.  We have a choice to find the humor in most everything that comes our way. Also, a good laugh is a great reliever of stress. 

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22 Jul
2008

Rebecca Hanson, owner of The Law of Attraction Training Center has invited me to co-lead a teleclass with her on parenting teens on July 31st at 5pm EST. I know this is going to be a class well worth your time. It’s completely free to sign up. Here are the links for more information:
https://www.lawofattractioncatalog.com/event_details.html?eventid=10460
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The Teen Brain

by Barbara Desmarais

8 Jul
2008

One of the great things about having a web site that has a high search engine ranking is that you hear about a lot of new products, programs and resources. Some are not relevant to my target market but others are.
If you’re a parent of a teen you know how we often scratch our [...]

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2 Jul
2008

Making mistakes is part of being human and in fact it’s through our mistakes that we learn the most. We know what not to do next time. We can do things again from a different perspective. We celebrate how we’ve grown through all our ups and downs.
With most things, there’s always an opportunity to try [...]

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27 Jun
2008

Your kids are driving you crazy.  You’re trying to figure out how you can get a break from the fighting, the whining, the tantrums and the defiance.  You’ve used all the tools you have up your sleeve and nothing seems to be working.  You’re at your wits end. 
Parenting is something we all think we should [...]

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23 Jun
2008

Through online business networking, I’ve had the privilege of meeting many talented and interesting people.  Debra Shiveley Welch is one of them.  Debra is a published author of several books.  Among them is “Son of My Soul - The Adoption of Christopher”.  Chris was born with a cleft lip and palate and has had some [...]

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Do we REALLY value our children?

by Barbara Desmarais

23 Jun
2008

I read an interesting article in our little local paper the other day titled:  “Denmark vs. B.C.’s daycare values” by Diane Strandberg.  Here is an excerpt from the story:
 ”A Danish researcher is leaving B.C. with a good education about the local daycare situation.
But while sad to be leaving friends and acquaintances here during a year and a [...]

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Are photographing your children?

by Barbara Desmarais

19 Jun
2008

I know for those  who have babies, the answer is obvious. We take thousands of pictures of our babies and share them with anyone and everyone.  We continue to take lots when they’re toddlers and preschoolers although a little less.  Once they get into school we seem to take significantly less. 
I put together a scrapbook for [...]

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Tomorrow is Father’s Day

by Barbara Desmarais

14 Jun
2008

Tomorrow is the day we celebrate fathers.  There’s a lot of celebrate in my opinion.  I love the way fathers now take such an active role in parenting which usually starts in the delivery room.  I’ve coached lots of dads who are as committed to raising responsible, well-adjusted, productive people as their partners are. They’re [...]

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Troubled Teens

by Barbara Desmarais

7 Jun
2008

I was a coaching a mom recently who is very concerned about her teen who is falling badly behind in school and making a lot of bad choices.  She gave me his history and without knowing more details than the ones she provided, I can see how things got derailed for this soon to be [...]

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